missteenussr's best of 2014 {my jams}

In 2014 I figured out a few things. The big takeaway was that one cannot blog in a bubble.

You need friends. You need support. You need love and comments and sharing.

You need to reciprocate.

You need to push yourself and be kind to yourself.

You need to remember - it's just BLOGGING. 

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merry dipmas! {my huge middle finger to the traditional christmas dinner}

Have you ever done 25 cent self-therapy and tried to figure out why you are the way you are? I do it ALL THE TIME. Instead of working on patching my holes and hurdling forward, I sit and sift through memories and hypotheses like a community college archaeologist in order to trace my shit’s beginnings.

Every now and then I do unearth treasure. 

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